Forever Deserves Paperwork
Valentine’s Day is full of big promises.
“Forever.”
“Always.”
“You’re my person.”
But here’s the real question: If something happened tomorrow, would the law agree?
Because love and legality are not the same thing.
Chocolates Melt. The Law Doesn’t.
You can post your partner. Buy matching pajamas. Move in together. Even share bank accounts.
But if you haven’t put it in writing, the state decides what happens, not your heart.
Without an estate plan:
An unmarried partner may receive nothing.
Minor children may have a court-appointed guardian.
Assets can get tied up in probate.
Family conflict can override your intentions.
“Forever” Needs Paperwork
Estate planning isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about protecting what you’ve built together.
Real commitment looks like:
Naming each other properly in a will or trust
Updating beneficiary designations
Making healthcare decisions clear
Protecting the home you share
Planning for children intentionally
If it’s real love, it deserves real protection.
Married? Don’t Get Too Comfortable.
Many married couples assume everything automatically goes to their spouse. Not always.
Outdated beneficiary forms, prior marriages, estranged family members, or improperly titled property can create serious complications.
Marriage is a legal status. But protection is a legal strategy.
Situationship? Let’s Talk.
If you’ve been together for years but “just never got around to it,” this is your sign.
The law does not recognize emotional commitment, only documented intent. You don’t only need a wedding to protect each other.
You also need a plan.
The Most Attractive Thing? Responsibility.
Flowers are thoughtful. Dinner reservations are nice. But securing your family’s future? That’s elite energy.
Estate planning says:
“I don’t just love you when things are easy. I’ve thought about what happens if life gets hard.”
That’s real partnership.